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How to Divorce in Massachusetts Using Mediation: An Interview on WCRN

How to Divorce in Massachusetts Using Mediation: An Interview on WCRN

| September 15, 2017

I had the great fortune to be interviewed by Attorney Allen Margulis of the Total Counselor Show on WCRN on

Mediators Can Help HIGH Conflict: Fact or Fiction?

Mediators Can Help HIGH Conflict: Fact or Fiction?

| November 17, 2016

People tell me “I want to refer someone to you but they are really high conflict so there’s no way mediation

The Assumption Trap | Lessons from Family Mediation Services

The Assumption Trap | Lessons from Family Mediation Services

| October 7, 2016

I often find inspiration for posts from my family mediation services. But the reality is that communication lessons are present

A Mediator’s Best Friend Can Remedy Your Relationship Issues

A Mediator’s Best Friend Can Remedy Your Relationship Issues

| August 2, 2015

I am a mediator and I recently lost one of the loves of my life. A best friend. A source

Dealing With Divorce Can Be Easier When You Think Like a Kindergartener

Dealing With Divorce Can Be Easier When You Think Like a Kindergartener

| November 1, 2014

I am always trying to find a unique twist for my posts. Something that sets my ideas apart. Thinking about

Is All Fair in Love and War? Lessons for Marriages, Divorce, and Separation Agreements

Is All Fair in Love and War? Lessons for Marriages, Divorce, and Separation Agreements

| October 3, 2014

Common separation agreement ideas: “We’ll just split things down the middle. That’s just the fair thing to do.” “We just

6 Ways to Deal with Rigid Black and White Thinkers Inspired by Mediation for Divorce Clients

6 Ways to Deal with Rigid Black and White Thinkers Inspired by Mediation for Divorce Clients

| September 5, 2014

  Do you ever feel like banging your head against the wall when dealing with rigid and inflexible people? Folks

3 Divorce Mediation Tips: How to Deal with Family Problems

3 Divorce Mediation Tips: How to Deal with Family Problems

| August 1, 2014

Echos of a divorce mediation: She doesn’t get it! She’s SO emotional. All she’s going to do is talk about

Ping-Pong Arguments: Two Tips for Dealing with Family Conflict Inspired by the Divorce Mediation Process

Ping-Pong Arguments: Two Tips for Dealing with Family Conflict Inspired by the Divorce Mediation Process

| June 8, 2014

There are some great concepts that mediators use in the mediation process that can be applied right at home. Let’s

10 Tips to Avoid Sounding Like Charlie Brown’s Teacher | Improve Communication in Relationships

10 Tips to Avoid Sounding Like Charlie Brown’s Teacher | Improve Communication in Relationships

| May 18, 2014

Ever been told you should listen more? To wait before you respond? To just shut up and just pay attention

5 Steps to a Great Apology | Family Conflict Management Strategies From a Divorce Mediator

5 Steps to a Great Apology | Family Conflict Management Strategies From a Divorce Mediator

| April 25, 2014

Ever receive an apology that didn’t feel apologetic? Left you feeling worse? Angrier? Infuriated? In mediation — and in life

Should I Get A Divorce? Why Talking About Your Reasons For Divorce Might Be A Game Changer

Should I Get A Divorce? Why Talking About Your Reasons For Divorce Might Be A Game Changer

| April 6, 2014

Sometimes the hardest conversations, the ones we dread the most, provide the greatest opportunity for growth and change in a

Hate Losing Arguments? 3 Conflict Mediation Steps to Improve Marriage Communication and Win!

Hate Losing Arguments? 3 Conflict Mediation Steps to Improve Marriage Communication and Win!

| March 23, 2014

I had a divorce mediation client who loved to win. He loved to win in basketball, business, and investments. His

Child Custody Mediation Tip: One Itsy-Bitsy Word Can Make a Huge Difference

Child Custody Mediation Tip: One Itsy-Bitsy Word Can Make a Huge Difference

| March 7, 2014

Two never-married parents in a child custody mediation despise one another. They chose child custody mediation to push themselves to